Dr. Rant ( Warning: M/C and way TMI mentioned)

So last weekend (week 3 after the miscarriage) I am still bleeding, and was starting to get concerned that I might have an infection, since I was having what might be other signs, which according to the internet is not uncommon, especially if you bleed past 2 weeks. So I wait till Monday and call the Dr. I leave a message with his nurse to that I'm not sure what I need to do have him call me. Nope, no call back. I call Tuesday morning, talk to the nurse (I knew he was not in the office that morning since I originally had my 12week apt scheduled for that day and had to change it, before the m/c) who says "let me see if he left me a message yesterday, Oh yeah he left an order for you to get a U/S done, I'll send it right over to the hospital so you can schedule it". So I wait an hour call the hospital and make an appointment for the next day (which was now Wed. ) per the order the Dr. Wrote on MONDAY.

I figured the Dr would call me Thursday with the U/S results. Nope I called at 3:30 Thursday saying hey can someone call me and let me know what's going on? No call. Friday morning around 11:00 I called AGAIN. Talked to the nurse AGAIN, who said, well he said you "could" consider a D&C......ooookaaayyy does that mean I need one? I should have one? Something's wrong? WTF? I'm not the Fucking Dr, how the hell am I suppose to know if I should have one done. She said well why don't I set up a pre-op apt on MONDAY for you. Write down all you're questions to ask him on Monday.

Lovely I get to pay another $20 co-pay to this freaking Dr who will probably once again not even do an exam. This is the THIRD time I will go to his office to "talk", both other times he looked at me and said "why are you here?" Um 1st time I'm f*ing bleeding during a pregnancy and the ER doc said to follow up with you, and the second time, I had a miscarriage you freaking moron. I thought you were "suppose" to come in especially since you gave me the "look" and didn't believe me when I told you I had one a year and a half ago and didn't go in.

****WARNING TMI FOLLOWS***********
So in the past week the other symptoms I was worried about are for the most part gone, but I've started passing tissue again, and the bleeding has gotten supper heavy again. Honestly it almost seems like it's starting over again although I haven't passed anything nearly as big as when I lost the baby. So now my mind is finding all these off the wall explanations, like I was pregnant with twins and this baby died first, but in my body's attempt to get rid of it I miscarried the other one who was perfectly healthy, or something wired like that.

I am SO done with this moron. I figure I'll "finish" the miscarriage with him because I honestly don't think I could get another Dr to see me right now, but after that I am SO done, and I plan to tell him next time he hires a nurse he should make sure that in addition to the cute perky blondes he seems to favor, he should make sure they have a brain and are responsible enough to deal with sensitive issues. Maybe if they're over 25 it will help.